Crossword puzzle clue "and end all whole"

___ and end-all (whole)

You could spend your whole life trying to find him, only to realize he's been right in front of you, making your daily crossword puzzle, the whole time

Person you could spend your whole life trying to find, only to realize he's been right in front of you, making your daily crossword puzzle, the whole time

"I'm the beginning of eternity, the end of time and space, the beginning of the end, and the end of every place ..."

Be-all and end-all

Hamadryad's be-all and end-all

One who spends the whole game making calls and who might be accused of not watching at all

Go whole ___ (pull out all the stops)