Crossword puzzle clue "borrow but not really"

Borrow, but not really

Activity in which people talk to the dead (but not really) (but maybe)

"Borrow trouble for yourself, if that's your nature, but don't ___ it to your neighbors": Kipling

2015 Beach House song named for the musical symbol for really really really softly

He's not really a sewer worker, but he played one...

Baby's first "word," but c'mon, let's face it, it's not really a word, per se, more like a grunt

Supposedly, but not really

Like Abner—but not really