Crossword puzzle clue "have be upset"

Thing that might be upset ... and what is "upset" in this puzzle's scrambled theme

They may be upset about being upset

Have ___ (be upset)

A really upset person may have one that's been hit

Actor who said "Some people have youth, some have beauty—I have menace"

Sounds you might make when I say "Would you rather watch your parents have sex or have your parents watch you have sex?"

Urban roar upset famous duelist (5,4)

Gets upset