Crossword puzzle clue "having said that"

It's said that he said, "I never said most of the things I said"

Like either option in "Would you rather watch a video of your parents having sex or your parents watch a video of you having sex?"

"Having said that ..."

"Having said all that"

Soccer coach who said "I do swear a lot, but the advantage is that having played abroad, I can choose a different language from the referee's."

Wit who said "Life is not having been told that the man has just waxed the floor"

"Having said that ..."

It might be said ahead of "said"