Crossword puzzle clue "like surprises you'd rather not get"

Like surprises you'd rather not get

Is rather like Rather

Sounds you might make when I say "Would you rather watch your parents have sex or have your parents watch you have sex?"

"Well, ___ you full of surprises!"

Some surprises ... and what you'll find in the circled areas of this puzzle

Like either option in "Would you rather watch a video of your parents having sex or your parents watch a video of you having sex?"

"All right, brain, I don't like you and you don't like me - so let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with ___": Homer Simpson

Things you'd rather not do