Crossword puzzle clue "match with someone who just wants to hurt you"

Match with someone who just wants to hurt you :(

"Someone I know wants to know (and that someone is me)"

Actor Hurt, when he's not feeling hurt?

"Are there breaks in this song?" (Surprise! Did you expect a clue about asking what someone wants from the market?)

Someone who can help you become someone you're not?

Hitter's need in baseball, unless, you know, he just wants to swing his arm

What the rodent match-making club wants?

"Being a ___ fan is like lending someone a lot of money and you just know that you'll never get paid back." (John Oliver)