Crossword puzzle clue "not just my or your"

Yell at your parents for not making the soup salty enough because your crush told you your mouth looks too funny to kiss, e.g.

They're gonna do what they do so just turn your head away and hold your palm out

Performed in a way that made your parents leave your school play in the middle of your solo :/

Minding not just your own business

Not just my or your

Not just your average Joe

"___ your age and not your shoe size!"

"Act your ___, not your shoe size!"