Crossword puzzle clue "someone like you"

Someone who can help you become someone you're not?

Like someone who can't wait to binge-watch "Mad Men" when someone invites them to Netflix and chill

What you might give someone you don't like

You might give this to someone you don't like

"Being a ___ fan is like lending someone a lot of money and you just know that you'll never get paid back." (John Oliver)

"Someone I know wants to know (and that someone is me)"

"All right, brain, I don't like you and you don't like me - so let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with ___": Homer Simpson

It's round (like the dots you need to connect) and associated with Santa (like what you'll create when you do)