Crossword puzzle clue "things you'd rather not do"

Things you'd rather not do

Diversion dropped when you'd rather not explain things

Is rather like Rather

Sounds you might make when I say "Would you rather watch your parents have sex or have your parents watch you have sex?"

Place to find things you like and things you don't

Something you'd rather not discuss

Like surprises you'd rather not get

Like either option in "Would you rather watch a video of your parents having sex or your parents watch a video of you having sex?"