Crossword puzzle clue "triumph you're on your own now but you're living out"

Triumph "You're on your own now, but you're living out ___"

1950s-'60s hit with the lyric "Ah, you made me love you / Now, now, now, now your man is come"

ATM charges, because of course you have to pay some of your own money to access some of your own money

Paddle your own ___ (do your own thing)

"I want you to think of one of your parents ... Concentrate now ... Create an image in your head ... The parent you are thinking of is ___"

Person born in the US but now living abroad, for short

It may be no one's vault but your own

Feeling you get when all your friends are out having fun but you have to stay in and write clues for a crossword puzzle :'(