Crossword puzzle clue "what you have up your sleeve"

Sounds you might make when I say "Would you rather watch your parents have sex or have your parents watch you have sex?"

What you have up your sleeve

___ your heart on your sleeve

"Have anything ___ up your sleeve?"

You have to switch yours in order to pass the car in front of you, unless you drive a monster truck in which case live your truth

Yell at your parents for not making the soup salty enough because your crush told you your mouth looks too funny to kiss, e.g.

Santayana defines it as "redoubling your effort when you have forgotten your aim"

ATM charges, because of course you have to pay some of your own money to access some of your own money