Crossword puzzle clue "your own grave do something that hurts you"

___ your own grave (do something that hurts you)

ATM charges, because of course you have to pay some of your own money to access some of your own money

Paddle your own ___ (do your own thing)

___ own grave

Triumph "You're on your own now, but you're living out ___"

Sounds you might make when I say "Would you rather watch your parents have sex or have your parents watch you have sex?"

Something that hurts, slangily

Answer to the question, "Which part of your sinuses hurts the most"?